• Workplace and Stress 

    Alexandria Henson, MA, LCPC, NCC

    December 2025

    If you are in the workforce, this blog might be for you, as you probably have encountered some level of stress. While we all encounter stress from time to time, workplace stress feels different. It feels different because you typically spend anywhere from 30-40+ hours there each week, which is a huge portion of your precious, valuable time. 

     





    Therapy or Psychiatry? 

    Alexandria Henson, MA, LCPC, NCC

    November 2025

    Let’s break down both. I often hear people ask what the difference is between therapy and psychiatry and while there are some similarities and overlap, there are many differences.

     





    Tips for Managing Holiday Stress  

    Alexandria Henson, MA, LCPC, NCC

    October 2025

    The holiday season is a wonderful, fun, magical, exciting time for many. However, for others, it is stressful, depressing, and lacks excitement for many reasons. If you know, you know. Let’s talk about ways to manage expectations, self-care, and meet yourself where you are at during the holidays. 

     





    Do I Need Therapy?  

    Alexandria Henson, MA, LCPC, NCC

    September 2025

    Maybe you have found yourself asking yourself this very question: Do I need therapy/should I go to therapy? I absolutely love this question for so many reasons. The quick answer is both yes and no (I know right?!), and here’s why.  

     





    The End-of-Summer Scaries: Finding Your Rhythm Before the Days Get Shorter 

    Jordan Hammes, MA, LPC

    August 2025

    You’ve heard of the Sunday Scaries — that anxious feeling before the week begins. But right now, a lot of us are dealing with the End-of-Summer Scaries. It’s that gut-level sense that summer slipped away too fast, that we didn’t make the most of it, and that everything is about to get harder as the days get shorter. 

     





    Are All Therapists The Same? 

    Alexandria Henson, MA. LCPC, NCC

    July 2025

    I often get this question a lot when I am seeing a new client. The short answer is no. The long answer is still no, but it is a lot more in-depth. This information is coming from my own, personal perspective. Some therapists, for example, come from a counseling background, while others come from a social work background. Both are equally important but have some similarities and differences. 

     





    From Labels to Connection: Finding Meaning in Fad Psychology

    Jordan Hammes, MA, LPC

    July 2025

    You’ve probably seen it in a dating profile or office icebreaker: “I’m an INTJ. Scorpio sun. Enneagram 4w5.” In the age of curated identity, fad psychology has found a permanent seat at the table—and it brought charts, quizzes, and just enough existential insight to keep things interesting.

     





    Mental Health and the 5 C’s

    By Alexandria Henson, MA, LCPC, NCC

    June 2025

    Mental health encompasses various aspects of our daily functioning. We all have mental health just as well have physical health. There are differing views on what the 5 C’s are but here the ones that stood out to me to share. 





    Boundary-Setting 101

    By Alexandria Henson, MA, LCPC, NCC

    May 2025

    You may have heard of the term boundaries or boundary-setting, but what does it mean? What are boundaries? How do we enforce them? What if I break one? What if someone doesn’t respect my boundary? These might be some questions you encounter with boundaries. Today, we will go over all of these areas and hopefully shed some light into what this means. 





    Navigating Father’s Day: Finding Meaning Through Change, Loss, and New Beginnings

    By Jordan Hammes, MA, LPC

    May 2025

    Father’s Day can evoke a wide range of emotions. For some, it’s a joyful celebration. For others, it’s a day of grief, awkwardness, or complicated reflection; recognize that this day may feel heavy for those facing a “first” — the first Father’s Day after the loss of a father, as a new father, or as part of a recently restructured family.

    Here are a few perspectives on Father’s Day and mental health, along with strategies for managing emotional complexity with self-compassion and intention.





    Depression and Anxiety: The Siblings of Mental Health Both in Function and Dysfunction

    By Joel T. Meyer, MA, LCPC

    May 2025

    In today’s culture, mental health concerns have become more prevalent than ever before.  In a recent study carried out by the Harvard School of Education, 39% of young adults reported that they had experienced recent feelings of anxiety; 29% reported recent feelings of depression.  This is the bad news.

    The good news is that there’s also less stigma associated with living with mental health concerns than ever before.   There is significantly less shame and guilt associated with experiencing depression and anxiety, or with seeking professional treatment for these conditions.  Depression and anxiety are no longer thought of as evidence of being broken, sick, weak, or a person of lesser value.  What’s more, help for mental health concerns is more easily accessible than it has been in the past.   

    But what is depression?  What is anxiety?  How are they related, and why does it matter?  This article will attempt to answer these questions from a practical perspective.





    Mental Health Basics 101: Common Conditions and Diagnoses

    By Alexandria Smith, MA, LCPC, NCC

    April 2025

    Mental health is a phrase you might have heard of or be familiar with. Mental health encompasses so many aspects of ourselves. We all have mental health and owe it to ourselves to take care of this. I always tell my clients that mental health is just as important as physical health. Think of this – if you had a broken bone or ongoing stomach pain, it would be normal and common to get checked out by your doctor and seek the appropriate care to attend to the issue. If you were feeling sad, stressed, or finding yourself unable to cope through stressors why wouldn’t you talk with someone about this? Mental health and diagnoses or even medication can be very taboo or controversial topics.





    Healthy vs Unhealthy Coping Skills

    By Alexandria Smith, MA, LCPC, NCC

    April 2025

    Last time around, we discussed the importance of coping skills with some examples. To recap, coping skills are healthy activities that you can utilize when stressed, sad, anxious, feeling down, or needing a pick-me-up. Coping skills can range from talking with a loved one, reading, journaling, going on a walk, or even watching a show, meditation/mindfulness, or coloring. There are so many wonderful and healthy skills that can support mental and physical health. While many coping skills are healthy, many are unhealthy.





    Addiction as a Family Disease: Understanding the Impact and Path to Healing

    By Jordan Hammes, LPC

    March 2025

    Addiction is often thought of as an individual struggle, but the reality is that it affects entire family systems. When one member of a family develops a substance use disorder, everyone around them is affected—emotionally, psychologically, and sometimes even physically or financially. Understanding addiction as a family disease is crucial for breaking harmful cycles and fostering healing for both the individual and their loved ones.





    What are Coping Skills and why are they Important? 

    By Alexandria Smith, MA, LCPC, NCC

    March 2025

    You may have heard terms such as self-care, coping skills, relaxation techniques, or even mindfulness. Each of these terms has some overlap but differences as well. Today, let’s focus on coping skills. 

    So what are coping skills anyway? Coping skills are healthy skills or tools that you can utilize when feeling stressed, anxious, sad, or experiencing challenges. 





    Coordination of Care in Split Treatment

    By Alexander Morrill, MD

    March 2025

    Combined treatment (psychotherapy plus medications) is widely seen as the “gold standard” for most mental health issues. In general, patients in combined treatment experience superior treatment outcomes and lower dropout rates [e.g. Cujipers et al, 2020].





    Gaslighting: Understanding the Tactics and Breaking Free

    By Jordan Hammes, LPC

    March 2025

    Gaslighting is a psychological manipulation tactic that makes someone question their perception, memory, or reality. Often subtle and insidious, it can occur in relationships, workplaces, and even self-inflicted patterns of thought. Understanding gaslighting is the first step toward recognizing it
    and regaining control.


    What is Self-Care and why is it Important?

    By Alexandria Smith, MA, LCPC, NCC

    February 2025

    Self-care is taking care of yourself in the way you need. Self-care is recognizing the importance of prioritizing yourself and following through with a method such as talking with a loved one, meditation, reading a book, going for a walk, or even practicing gratitude. 

    Self-care looks different for everyone and can look different for you each day. Self-care is a necessity for all of us that can help prevent burnout and make you happier and more fulfilled overall. Most self-care is already what you enjoy doing, but labeling it as “this is my self-care today” might help recognize ways you are supporting yourself. 



    You Can Be Right, Or Have A Relationship: Part Two

    By Joel T. Meyer, MA, LCPC

    December 2024

    In the previous article, we explored typically problematic conflict dynamics.  Inasmuch as there are many ways of problematically arguing; there are also very effective ways of resolving the problems between us.  Consider that for a moment, ‘the problems between us.’  When it is our goal to give attention to our connection, we use methods which create more distance.  As many of us have perfected the dead-end argument, let us consider how to develop skills to collaborate and connect when discussing that which is meaningful to us.


    You Can Be Right, Or Have A Relationship: Part One

    By Joel T. Meyer, MA, LCPC

    October 2024

    That’s right, one cannot have both.  Let’s reflect for a moment on what happens when fighting.  Disputes, fights, and arguments create separation between your and your audience.  What then is the ultimate goal when arguing?  The goal is to come together, seek agreement, and closeness about a particular topic or subject.  So if the goal is to be on the same page, how is it that disputes result in creating distance between the two of you?  Take a moment before reading on to think about what creates distance when fighting.  What did you come up with?  If your answer was ‘how’ you disagree, then you’re correct.



    Common Factors of a Therapeutic Environment

    By Joel T. Meyer, MA, LCPC

    August 2024

    When looking for a psychiatrist and/or a therapist, for what is it that people are looking?  The top two qualities people seem to look for most are good listening skills and non-judgement.  These two qualities are not just consistently demonstrated by all of the providers and staff at Skylark Behavioral Health; they are the foundation of our work.  In the final analysis, what is it that persons who seek help expect?  They expect help that helps.  What is it that helps?